Junaid Jamshed: A sick mind – by Shazia Nawaz
posted by Taj | February 3, 2013 | In Original Articles
جنید جمشید کا پاگل پن
مجھے تو سواے ترس کے جنید جمشید پر کچھ بھی نہیں آتا. نہ ہی غصّہ آتا ہے اور نہ ہی امپریس ہوتی ہوں. جس نے بھی جنید جمشید کا انٹرویو دیکھا، اس کو ایک ایسے ذھن میں جھانکنے کا موقع ملا جس کو سوچنے سے روک دیا گیا ہے. اپنے انٹرویو میں ہی جنید جمشید نے بتایا کہ اس کے دوستوں نے اس کو اس طرھا کا بنایا ہے. اچھا بھلا آدمی تھا. وہ اس کو کوئی بات مذہب کا نام لے کر بتا دیتے ہیں اور پہلے سے ہے پاگل آدمی اور بھی پاگلوں جیسی باتیں کرتا ہے
پاکستان کوئی سعودی عرب نہیں. ہماری عورتیں باہر نکلتی ہیں، ڈرائیو کرتی ہیں اور جابز کرتی ہیں. جنید جمشید نے اپنے انٹرویو میں کہا کہ اس کو اپنی بیوی پر اعتبار نہیں تھا، کیوں کہ وہ بوہت خوبصورت تھی. اس لیے جنید نے اسے گھر سے کم نکلنے دیا اور اسے ڈرائیونگ نہیں سکھائی . تاکہ وہ گھر سے خود نہ نکل سکے. جنید بھا ئی ، اپ اپنے اپ کو کم عقل ٹھیک ہی بلاتے ہیں جس عورت نے اپ کا انٹرویو کیا، وہ بھی گھر سے نکلی اور شاید ڈرائیو کر کے ہی آئ
شادی ڈرائیونگ کرنے سے ناکام نہیں ہوتی. بیوی کو اپنا بنانے کے لیے اس کخوش رکھنا ہوتا ہے. آدمی کی طرح اگر عورت بھی خوش ہو اور ازدواجی زندگی سے مطمئن ہو، پھر ہی وہ بھی اپ کی بن کر رہتی ہے. ورنہ جیل میں رکھنے سے مسلے حل نہیں ہوتے. جیل میں رہنے والے لوگ موقع پا کر بھاگ جاتے ہیں
اور یہ بھی یاد رکھیں کے ہم سارے اپنے بچوں کو ہینگر سے نہیں ما ڑ تے. اس لئے نہیں کہ ویسٹ نے کہا ہے بلکہ اس لئے کہ بچہ کمزور ہے اور اپنا دفع نہیں کر سکتا. ماڑنے سے بچے ڈھیٹ اور باغی ہو جاتے ہیں اور ان کی عزت نفس مجروح ہوتی ہے. ماڑنے سے بچہ زیادہ زہین نہیں ہوتا. جھوٹ بولنا سیکھ لیتا ہے.
Junaid Jamshaid: A sick mind
I did not find it inspiring and I did not find it offensive; I just found JJ’s interview very sad. How can an adult human have such an inability to think clearly? And JJ actually answered that question for us. It’s his friends. Somehow, he became a part of a crowd that does not allow him to think. They tell him things in the name of religion and he just follows, and uses his fame to “spread” that message.
Pakistan is not Saudi Arabia; Pakistan is a country where women get out of their houses and go to offices. Pakistan is a country where women drive. When JJ said on national Tv that he does not let his wife get out of the house and doesn’t let her drive because he doesn’t trust her due to his own insecurities, that gave us a look in to a very sick mind. Did he know that the woman sitting and interviewing him was also actually talking to a Na-Mehram? And he was insulting that very woman with his statements?
I just feel sad for his wife who married a rock star and ended up spending her life with a very insecure and almost an ill man. JJ also admitted that he is Kam-Aqal, means stupid. And this is exactly what he is. Then he looked in the eye of the Camera and advised rest of the Pakistani men-in a firm voice- to not let their wives drive or go out of their houses freely, so that they won’t be tempted.
And interestingly, when the interviewer asked questions about “those women fans”, he requested for privacy in that matter. Seems like JJ bhai has done Toba.
Idea of caging another human and controlling another human physically just so that human would not cheat on you is insane JJ bhai. But only if that insane idea worked, it would be worth it for some. Just like men, women too only stay faithful if they are in happy marriages. If they love their husbands. If they are satisfied with their lives. Otherwise, just like men, they too find a way to look for happiness.
If you can not trust your spouse, you probably should leave your spouse. More importantly, your spouse should leave you. No one should suffer because of your mental problems. Let me tell you JJ bhai, my driving ability is the least likely factor to affect my relationship with my husband; other things in marriage are more important.
Watching JJ’s interview was nothing but very sad. Also, in the civilized world, we don’t beat our children with hangers. It is not a “western idea” to not beat your children. It is just humane. Children are physically weaker and can’t defend themselves, and beating them creates mental problems for them, and does not increase their IQ even one point. Abused kids also become insecure and angry and they learn to lie. Probably JJ should see a psychologist to find a connection between his current insecurities and childhood beatings.
Good Morning Show – Junaid Jamshed (18 Jan 2013)
http://www.dramasonline.com/good-morning-pakistan-18th-january-2013-junaid-jamshed/
http://youtu.be/aS5AdK0Mn9o?t=39m10s
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Taj
Ali Abbas Taj is the Editor of Let Us Build Pakistan. @aliabbastaj on Twitter
On which show that JJ interview was aired on? youtube link please.
The female host had her head covered in a full hijab this time. I have no idea what he had said to her before the show, but when I tuned in, I heard this,
“If you want to live a happy life, don’t teach your wife how to drive a car or a motorcycle.”
Now I don’t consider myself a feminist, but this drove me up the wall. What about basic rights? Why should a woman in this day, age and country not be allowed to drive a car? Why does she have to stay home?
The host asked what a woman was supposed to do in a case where she had no husband? Mr Jamshed said that he didn’t want to answer questions based on hypothetical situations.
Later, he was heard saying that if such a thing did happen, God will help her.
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Excuse me madam!
Actually he is a Muslim and we have one Culture. The culture (SHARIAAH) of which is Prophet MOHAMMED (p.b.u.h) told us.
And one more thing , ARE YOU MUSLIM..?? WHERE IS YOUR HEJAAB..??
Mr Talat Islam Khan,, so are you saying that a womon who doesn’t wear hijab is not a Muslim?
Muna Khan @muna_khan
Is there no online petition calling for Junaid Jamshed to migrate to Saudi Arabia where he will find much happiness?
omar r quraishi @omar_quraishi
Junaid Jamshed (of Thou Shalt Not Let Thine Women Drive fame) and @sufisal have a new song out apparently — titled “Naya Pakistan”
Mehreen Rana @mehreenrana
RT @basim15pirzada: Junaid Jamshed believes women should not drive. Thank God here in Al-Bakistan women fly aircrafts too.
Raza Rumi @Razarumi
Former pop music icon turned preacher #JunaidJamshed sys don’t teach women to drive. He should migrate to Saudia Arabia.Boycott his outlets
WaqasAni @WaqasAni
In Junaid Jamshed, we have witnessed Deobandi-ization of a previously moderate Sunni. Hats off to his mentors Taqi Usmani and Ahmed Ludhianvi
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xwuw1g_good-morning-pakistan-by-ary-digital-18th-january-2013-part-4_shortfilms#.UQ53eNa1aMw
Iss ko Hazrat Khadijah (peace be upon her)kaa zikr kartay huway maut aati thi.
”Rasulullah (pbuh) hazrat Ayeshah kay saath race lagatay thay.” Lahaula wala quwwat!!! Yeh tauheen-e-risaalat hay.
Hazrat Khadija R.A.
“Ms shazia Nawaz” your blog isn’t good at all. i get your point..this is write that Mr.JJ said wrong, because he judge women wrongly..but female like you who do not know the difference between religion and culture has no right to comment on other person…first broad your knowledge than say somthing..
The anchor had her head covered up nicely but she left her arms bare ??
nice article thanks for share……
This piece on Jamshed Junaaid has been written in an agitated and emotional state of mind. It shiws little understanding of hunanbehavior. People acquire certain traits by genetic make up and some traits are learned with training or practice. She needs to study Psychology and religion to widen her horizon. She lacks manners too. She is not only critical but abut too opinionated, She has formed an erroneous opinion on the basis of a simple interview.She has missed the point of reference. Women are free to ,ive their life they want to. There are no costraints imposed on them. If JJ wants to control his wife in a certain manner then its their affair, not Ms. Shazia Nawaz’s affair. She has tried to philosophize in her way. Should we say she lacks knowlege osr out rightly tell her to shut up because she is stupid. How would this sound to her. Sweet music to the ears or abuse. S
She has literally abused the man on the basis of views expressed in an interview in light vein. He has given his views in a open and candid manner. To her surprise if she ask the sane question to a sample of men, then the majority of the men would expresss the same views. He may his fears about her driving skills or capabilities. Asfar not letting her go outside of house means that she has been living in a cage or absolute confinement.He may perfer it that way. because he trusts and love her. He does not want the eople to be tempted by her beauty. He does not want to share her with others.
She has grossly misinterpreted h J J’s point of view.He has accepted his religion , and practicing it in letter and spirit.Many sane people are religious minded, but that does not mean they are deraiged or suffer from dementia.
This is not sign of some mental disease or udiocy. It is just matter of simple choice and every individual has a right to make choice deliberately or otherwse ased on hisacquired knowledge. Ithink she needs to learn more about J.J before passing judgement on hom.
I hope this will calm her down and clear herstate of mind.
Javaid Bashir
Attirney at law
Nashua, NH, USA
Aslkm! 🙂
This was a better way to explain what actually should have been told regarding JJ. Thank you for the enlightening through your words and opinions, brother. I truly hope Shazia gets this point through and may be she will have a much better opinion of JJ and we get to hear some positive and sincere opinions coming and not some bullshit coming from a confused state of mind.
Shazia please keep ur views with you . We always the positive change . See what we did to our generation, neither we are Muslim nor Western .
bohat hi acha hai yar kiya bat hai ap ki
Shazia Nawaz is messed up ! Just because he has a beard and is Islamic that doesn’t mean he is sick minded etc ! You should be ashamed of yourself for criticizing him. What he said about women not driving was said in light manner. A lot of people believe that women are not good drivers, and a lot of men think therefore they shouldn’t drive. This however does not make them oppressed or sick minded. You are the one who’s sick minded; who can’t stand Pakistan going towards Islam! I don’t understand who gave her the authority to even write this crap ? This woman doesn’t even know the difference between culture and religion! Ms Nawaz you are highly insecure about your religion and culture; you are one of those people who want’s to act western and the type who get inspired by India!
Rape is legitimized in your religion —- the victim has to produce 4 (spectator) men as witness, if not she has to rot in Jail or stone to death. Right?
I found your written piece to be very childish, opinionated and down right narrow minded! As a female, I found Junaid Jamshed’s comments on women only the slightest bit offensive, far from calling the poor guy sick minded!
And how can you assume his wife is feeling oppressed or is unhappy? There are women who actualy feel liberated in parda believe or not.
Like you have stereo typed Junaid Jamshed
as a religious backward thinking man. I can stereo type you as a desperate western thinking wannabee.
Afsos mis shazia sahiba… Aik shaks itni achi batain samjha raha hai and ap??? I think the best comment for u that u r a sick of mind mam jaen apna elaj karwaen or Aik bar sachy dil se namaz parhna Khud ans miljaega.
meiny pura interview suna jj ne ye kb kaha k usko apni bv py bharosa ni tha nd all that….jhoti shuhrat k liye log khudsy kitni baten bana lety n …touba
or han aik bat…meiny junaid ki pichli xndagi bhi qareeb se dekhi hai or change hony ky baad wali bhi….us mein kya or kitna change aya hai ye aap ni samj skti….ALLAH hamen dosroun ki khubiyan dekhny ki or apny aeyb dekhny ki toufieeq dy…amin
i totally agree with jj …my husband also dislikes the fact that i should drive bec in a place like pak if there is a slight accident: its the woman to b blamed and the whole place gets crowded with men who r there as spectators only and share little help….. according t my husband h would not like anybody misbaving with his wife….im sure jj also shares the same apprehension and i dont think there is anything wrong if u want t protect ur wife from the ruthless world outside
let allah judge him
Is not Allah the best of the Judges? (95:8)
yg
yeh saab bakwass hai and suun lo junaid is a very nice person aur uss se sikho nake unglya uthaoo falto loog pata na ho to muo mat khola karo
aoa.miss shaziya why u r too negative like this.if u need freedom u take.why u r insulting other people those people which are role modle for us.ur attitude z not right.every signal person has its own thinking.but j.j is alhumdullah nice.i think u just watch the show for take out negativity.he z not talking about u not ur life and not distubed ur life then i don,t know why u r behave like this?v bad
Aasi bat nahi Junaid Jamshed bohat achay ansan hain
This Saudi trained mullah’s absurd statement about women role in society calls for a complete boycott of his good which are stitched and cotton picked by women . Please go ahead and spread the word around ! I will not buy his clothes from now on .
Shazia you are one twisted, screwed up messed up woman yourself. You sure know how to twist words and distort facts. I watched the programme too……….and seriously? is that what you picked up from it? Woman you need help!
The problem with us Pakistanis is that we had obtained Pakistan on the name of Islam: “Pakistan ka matlab kya, La Ilaha Illallah”. And unfortunately now we are afraid to practically implement Islam in our lives, which is why we are faced with the azaab of Allah in the form of lawlessness, sectarian violence, etc, etc …. May Allah Subhana Wata’alaa guide us towards the right path and show us light and make clear to us the difference between right and wrong. Hats off to Junaid Bhai whom Allah has guided towards the right path of doing what all real Muslims should be doing i.e. Tableegh and Da’awah !
Shazia nawaz please keep ur views with you . Actually you are a sick woman not JJ. Junaid bhai has an extremely ideal personality. The host is also our favourite one, she look very pretty covering her head. Please never critisize on someone, first see what YOU are.
Shazia nawaz its good to be a broad minded person… but here afer reading your reviews and criticism I can only say that you never learned islamic teachings.. I m not an online MUJAHID.. but from your point of view a well mature person who understands islam can only claim you a non muslim. You are an ridiculous idiot, who only create and spread issues and let others to blame islam for everything… inshort you are
CLAIMING ISLAMIC TEACHINGS
And wot the hell year is today nevermind
Are you a Muslim Lady??
Where is Your Hijaab?? You are just advertising your self.
even shia women wear hijab..
shazia nawaz actually you r sick not jj.
Please do not use Shia or Sunni here. We Muslims are brothers and sisters. Do not judge anyone by some of his/her postings. You many not know that person is more close to Allah then we are. Let’s spread the love and harmony among all Muslim sects.
I scrolled down the entire article to see if she points out the factor I was offended by but it wasnt mentioned at all. I dont care what JJ say about us driving etc. Im more amused at the fact that when the host pointed out what ahould women do when their husbands die to which he said twice that he has no answer to such a hypothetical question when infact it was a practical and excellent question. I have lost my dad and know tons of other young females who went thru hell in such cases. Everyone who commented here in favor of him, please answer that particular question.
Dear Hajra
May Allah bless you.
The controversial point here was driving a car.
How much driving a car would help you survive this situation?
Unfortunately pakistan is culturally not very Islamic. In an ideal Islamic world a woman should be remarried after death of her husband and the children should have a guardian but does not really apply.
A woman who is well looked after and well provided is far more lucky than a woman who goes out to earn and pay bills.
She actually keeps a servant in the house and goes out to work as a servant outside the house.
For a woman left on her own after the husband ideally her responsibilities should be taken care of but if it does not happen then it is not haram for them to go out and work and earn
What he talked about was an ideal Islamic state which generally does not exist
But some men like him would have provided so in their houses
I don’t agree that a wan staying in the house, not driving is an oppressed one.
My mom was a house wife, didn’t knew how to drive and she has always been the boss of the house.
Well dear … word woman means “hidden” and i didnt find anything wrong in what Junaid Jamshaid said … its the same thing EVERY married man thinks … its the same fear EVERY man goes through … the difference is he said it openly but others feel ashamed to tell … i think the writer of column shall c her face in mirror nd than shall look at junaid jamshed and shall decide her self who has NOOR on face and who has face tht no one will like to turn for ….
An excellent article. Pakistan came into being by the sacrifices of the common man, but it was visualized and materialized by the educated elite. There’s no space for religion in the matters of the state. Junaid’s comment is laughable, and so is the Arabization of Pakistan. Please, write more, Shazia. As the world moves towards curing cancer and our concerns become more trivial and ridiculous by the day, writers and thinkers such as yourselves bring hope. Pakistan Zindabaad!
Excellent article Shazia!! Keep writing. It is so pathetic to see the low mentality of these people. Unfortunate religion has been symbolized in Pakistan. People are considered good Muslims if they have got bear, if they dress up in a certain way, and when they restrict and confine the female members of their family to their home premises and other ridicules stuff. What they actually consider to be Islamic, has nothing to do with Islam. Islam is a just religion and it is concerned with justice. By suppressing one group of people under the name of Islam, we are not doing any good to Islam but in contrary we are degrading Islam by applying un-Islamic norms in our society and suppression of women is one of them. Unfortunately, men in our society are so weak and they don’t have the strength to control and balance themselves. Therefore, they use religion to suppress women and maintain social control. While women are so much suppressed that they got insensitive to what is happening around them and to them. They just don’t see the violation of their human rights. Extremely depressing!!!!
Oops, I really didn’t expect that one coming specially from Junaid Jamshaid. He is a well known and a respectful man now a days. But every one is not just right or exact to his point. Being a mankind, every one does mistakes and mispoke at least once in their lives.
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