I’m a better Muslim than you -by Meera Ghani
In Pakistan we wear our religion on our sleeves. With people obsessively competing to prove their “muslimness”, piety seems to be more about making a public show of how religious you are rather than looking at how your deeds affect others. To quote Karl Barth “Faith is never identical with piety”. For me religion is a personal matter and should be kept that way.
Virtually every major issue in society is seen through a religious lens with an objective to see whether it adheres to “real” Islam or not. The media Pakistan acts as the moral police and often clergy is invited on channels to hand out verdicts, a prime example being the atrocious interview with the late Governor Salmaan Taseer, preceding his brutal murder. Many people that I talked to didn’t think that Taseer was a blasphemer but they claimed that he wasn’t a good muslim and so he brought his untimely death upon himself. The harshest reality check was when hailing a murderer as a hero appeared to be a virtue for many- a way to showcase their loyalty to Islam.
Unfortunately we live in a country where the word of the mullah has become synonymous with the word of Allah. Recently friend was harassed by a mullah while visiting a bank for not sporting an Islamic beard. He was told that he needed to be taught a lesson and that the fear of eternal damnation wasn’t a good enough deterrent. Islam is also becoming synonymous with Saudi culture which is in turn is seen as the pinnacle of faith and piety. We often forget the injustices that exist in their society. Wahabisim is being exported by preachers like Farhat Hashmi and women are being encouraged to adorn Saudi style abaya and niqabs in order prove that they are good muslisms.
A student at a university was reprimanded by a professor for his personal facebook page not meeting Islamic standards. According to the professor one of the widget he has on his page (it allows you to track fans) had followers with the name Muhammad who had animated profile pictures, which she deemed as highly disrespectful to our Holy Prophet (pbuh). She repeated called him a “Gustakh-e-Rasool” and declared him “Wajib-ul-Qatal”. She even went as far as trying to get this student suspended for not taking her advice. The poor student’s misery doesn’t end there. She has been since harassing him by sending threatening text messages and calling his family continuously.
Where will all this end?
A common strategy amongst traditionalist is to accuse anyone whose understanding of Islam is not in line with the conventional view of not being muslims and they call for them leave their faith. Their adherence to the literal letter of the law has become such that even a small deviation from their dogmatic interpretation and traditional edicts is considered blasphemous. There is no room for dissenting opinion or independent thought let alone discourse. Islam is often used for political commandeering. Recently Fareed Paracha on a talk show misquoted a few verses from the Qur’an to make a point, not only was the audience unable to question it, the other religious scholar supported the claim. In fact the moderator of the show emphatically agreed with Mr. Paracha.
Religious authorities not only have a powerful hold over the public as the gatekeepers of faith but are also receive patronage by the State. In a society where people are attacked for not being religious enough you create a climate of fear where people have to prove that they are more religious than the next person leading to a downward spiral of intolerance.
We were put on this path to righteousness by our elders right after independence through the inclusion of the Objective Resolution, the compromises made in 1973 constitution to appease the right and last but not least due to the radicalization by General Zia ul Haque. He created a generation of what I call the “children of Zia”, children who grew up on the anti-India, jihad, supremacy of Pakistan ideology, using religion as a vehicle of hate. People will always find ways to spread bigotry and violence, be it through religion, nationalism, fear or political ideologies. It’s not the vehicle that is the problem, it’s the message you promote through it.
What was ingrained in us was a strange mix of religious nationalism and paranoia. It’s no wonder that every issue in Pakistan becomes the object of conspiracy theories but I digress.
So my question to you would be, how do you define a good muslim? Someone who is knows the Qur’an by heart, prayers 5 times a day and then goes out and kills someone in the name of religion. Or someone who openly drinks but then spends most of his time aiding the poor?
I define being a muslim as a person who believes in the basic tenets of Islam. If in your heart of hearts you believe in Islam and what it teaches you then you are a muslim. No matter what category others put you in. What is in your heart is between you and God. No one can or should judge someone else’s faith. There seems to be a dichotomy between religiosity and the moral traditions. We often forget why we are being asked to follow those rituals, that these practices were put in place to make you a better human.
I think our understanding of Islam will evolve over time and people will realize which of its teachings we should be focusing on. I for one would like our society to break away from the prevalent ideology of hate and focus on the compassion, tolerance and justice it teaches us towards others regardless of their faith, race, sex and caste. The Charter of Compassion led by Karen Armstrong is one such initiative we could all learn from.
“Virtually every major issue in society is seen through a religious lens with an objective to see whether it adheres to “real” Islam or not.”
Huh, and your point is??? We are muslims so OF COURSE we are going to, and we should and we MUST see every issue through a religious lens. You live in Belgium so may be all the glitter and the glare has blinded you for a while but we are here going through all the hardships and still trying to live a halal life. If you don’t like it, don’t comment about it. Live your life whatever way you like and wherever you like it but not in my courtyard. Thanks very much.
thats the mentality meera rightly pointed out as reflected in the comment by abira aslam. these so called good muslims think nobody else has any right on their country. most of the hardships faced by pakitan are due these extremists and their grand father Zia(lanatullah).
@Abira thanks for your comments, I’ve grown up in Pakistan. I only moved to study and work in my specialisation which is climate change- not such a hot topic in Pakistan as you must know. But I work in Pakistan a lot too. So as a Pakistani Muslim I feel I have every right to comment on what I see around me. You don’t have to agree but its my point of view.
@Bukhari thanks for your comment, sadly everyone is too quick to judge others in Pakistan.
A VERY WELL WRITTEN ARTICLE WITH ALL THE FACTS AND RATIONALITY.YES SHE IS VERY TRUE ABOUT THE WORST WAHABISM BEING PRECHED AND BEING TAKEN AS THE FEATHER OF SUCCESS IN OUR SOCIETY AND ALSO THAT NOW THAT SAUDI STYLE ABAYA AND NAQABS ARE JUST BECOMING POPULAR IN THE MIDDLE CLASS LADIES TO PROVE THEIR ETERNAL LOOVE WITH THEIR WAHABSIM,MY LAND IS MORE OPEN AND SECULAR AND LIBERAL AND WE DONT WANT TO BE FOLLOWED TO THE WORST SAUDI STYLES RATHER THAN TO PRAISE AND FEEL GREAT OF OUR VALUES AND TRADITIONS.
WELL DONE MS.MEERA WELL DONE
ya we r being forced to islamisation. Most girls r seen wearing suadi style abaya but they dont fit in it its like hiding . Yes they won because we didn’t play our role . May be someday they realise that they dont need this kind of islam because it is chalanging them also.
I like ur article Meera but in my opinion any extreme is bad ..wahabism or extreme liberation any of those extreme shld not define Islam ……as a Muslim I still believe in all the basic principles of Islam and also strongly agree with what u said abt focusing or tolerance peace and love instead of judging other Muslims and trying to play God by labeling them as being good or bad Muslims ..there are numerous examples in Islam which repeatedly tell us tht only Allah knows who goes to Jannah so we shld leave tht upto God and focus on ourselves and our own actions..,it makes me sad tht today the world views Islam as the religion of hate and strict rules where women are suppressed ..but when Islam came it actually liberated most women of tht time when ppl use to burry girls alive in the ground and Islam gave women rights and respect tht they didn’t have at that time …so maybe we shld all try to preach peace and love (haqooq ul Ibad) instead of focusing on who has a beard who doesnt wear a burqa!
Religion in Pakistan will be it’s downfall.
Soon Pakistan will turn into a much more radical state where free speech, dissent, human rights and equality won’t exist. It will become a state only for Sunni Wahhabi people, and even Muslims from other countries won’t want to visit. Hindus, Christians and other minorities won’t be welcome.
So what will be left? Pakistan will become an isolated nation full of religious nationalist freaks. Nobody wants to visit Pakistan now OR do business there. While the whole world opens up branches in India and invests there everybody is scared of Pakistan.
Remember – when you don’t respects the rights and views of others don’t expect others to respect you. And then all of you will wonder why nobody will allow Pakistanis to visit their country
Meera Ghani!
I read yor column very carefully but i’m sorry to say that i really dont agree with everything you wrote or mention here.
If you found some of the people who’re goin on the wrong path or using Islam for their own purposes or Politicizing Islam that doesn’t mean you star writing Pkaistani Islam or Pkaistani society is going on the wrong side.
Yes there’re some people Politicizing Islam but that doesn’t mean that Pakistani society is immature or just showing off with name of religion. Yes you’re right that Religion is a personal matter but Hijab,wearing on Islamic dress is not showing off and in Pakistan i think you need to visit again… to know more about our society.I live in Belgium put on western dress sometimes I love to be in my Cultural and Islamic dress that n i always being appreciated by everyone(the Belges,Italians or British ppl) In Pakistan i put on western and eastern as well and i have no problem there.
One more thing ..If ladies are in Hijab that doesn’t mean that they’re following any wahabistan or forsed by someone.Yes in some of the family you can say that women are fprsed to cover them but not everywhere.
I didn’t know about About the “Firqaism” ..what is Wahabi,bralvi,deyobandi etc.. but time to time i learned n stydied Islam n start caling myself just a Muslim and sunni .. but now as i cintinued study about Islam i came to know that Muhammad(peace be upon him) never called himself Shiya or sunni He Was just a MUSLIM so i stopped saying Sunni ,Now I only call myself a MUSLIM.Now what would you say that i’m using Islam,or Islam is making me what?If i realised something which is bad & i learned from my religion then that doesn’t mean that we need to show Islam while we live in Pakistan.
you met some extremists i guess just visit again n try to meet some nice People.
AA. Its very nice to read the article. Everyone has the right to say waht they want to say. But in my opinion sorry to say no one has the right to say anything against someone. As you mentioned the name of a scholor. If we beleive that everyone is doing their own job so let them do it. Just focus on your own performance what we are doing and how can we improve rather to discriminate and showing our own hate or love for someone else. The only question is that what we are? Are we really Muslims and how much i am practicing islam as my first and foremost religion? As i am nothing without Islam….. Hopefully you can understand my point.
I’ve read your article very attentively. You’ve pointed out a problem that is becoming more and more common in all Muslim countries. There are several factors to blame – but let’s face it: in Islam (and a few other religions), kudos are allocated to individuals who have shown great loyalty to the common beliefs.
The problem you have elaborated on stems from the behaviour of human beings. However, this is one of a hundred other problems surrounding the cancer that Islam is, and the danger it poses to society and humanity.
The real problem is Islam itself.